[苦惱] 碎唸是我的地雷
結婚2年多,有一個小孩
婚後沒有跟公婆住,大約1個月回去過2天周末
公婆人很好,對媳婦沒什麼要求
回去頂多就進廚房幫忙洗個菜切水果洗洗碗這樣
我知道我的狀況跟板上許多人比起來算很好的了
可是有件事情真的很困擾我
我的原生家庭算是比較自由的
爸媽有自己的生活,不太管我
相較之下,我老公的家庭就是很緊密的那種
小孩都成家了,媽媽還是會顧頭顧尾,叮嚀這個叮嚀那個
所以我一直不太習慣
一開始我會微笑點頭應話
到後來我發現如果應話 她就會一直一直一直講下去
不應話會好一點點,長度從1小時變50分鐘這樣
偏偏我畢生最討厭的就是被碎唸
而且是一天相處時間8小時,可以唸6.5個小時這樣
搞到現在我越來越沒耐性,回婆家婆婆一開始唸,我就會頭痛欲裂,忍不住生氣臭臉躲房間
可是我婆婆其實人很好,我不想這樣對她啊!!
每次生完氣回自己家,我都會很懊惱自己的態度
有沒有人可以幫我轉轉念,讓我能正面接受愛碎唸的婆婆呢Q_Q
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