[苦惱] 老爸有小三
把家裡的隱私抖出來,實在有點面子掛不住,
目前需要大家的建議,來整理自己思緒,
老爸今年七十了,原以為這個年紀是閒情逸緻,養貽天年,想不到他在幾個月
前偷偷結交一個要好的女友,兩個人每天都在公園會面二個多小時,一直到上
個月被老媽看到。
這個女人我沒有見過,經過家中成員描述,年紀介於四十多近五十,
好像有社會社交障礙方面的問題,長年沒有工作,一個人租屋,養隻狗,
生活費全靠兄姐支助,她的穿著很特別,雨鞋和雨傘不離身,一條褲子還有
補過的痕跡,生活很儉樸,有點刻苦。除了外表有點引人側目以外,言談還算正
常,講話緩慢輕柔,有時有點晃神。
老爸被抓包後,嗆聲自己是七十古來稀,半個身子進棺材的年紀,誰都不要來管他。
他跟女友是精神戀愛,沒有金錢上的往來,因為新女友,老爸心情愉快,也開始跟
著新女友做些戶外運動,以前他是宅男,天天窩在家裡看電視。
老媽一向好面子,嘴裡說不管,但是心裡肯定不好受。老媽這幾年病痛不斷,脾氣
明顯變差,但是家事從來沒有間斷過,每天煮飯給六個大人,二個小孩,洗衣整理
家務,照顧孫子,累了一整天加上病痛纏身,肯定會脾氣大,而發脾氣的對象大部
份就是老爸了。
老媽幫家中成員煮餐帶小孩,賺得生活費。
家中小孩各持兩方意見,一方面是認同老爸,一方面是同情老媽。也因為兩派激論,
家中成員爭吵,冷戰不斷。妹妹也因為要跟老爸斷絕關係。
我離家有近二十年之久,不是很清楚為何要鬧到這番田地。家中小孩一直很依賴
爸媽的幫助和歷年累績下來的資源,目前房子是在老爸名下,金錢在媽媽帳戶,
家中成員經濟沒有那麼好,都希望仰賴父母的幫助。
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