[討論] 結婚後下班要回家, 無法與朋友聚餐正常嗎
其實我也知道這見仁見智 每個家庭的接受程度都不同
我新婚快一年 明年也將會有寶寶誕生
老公是個蠻居家的人 沒有來往密切的朋友或同事
他下班後就是回家 晚餐在家吃 不喜歡外食(基於省錢+健康)
而我呢 「婚前」像一般上班族 常外食 偶爾與同事朋友聚餐
我也能接受老公的生活態度 婚後就配合他的作息 也跟著下班就回家煮飯
其實這樣生活我也蠻開心的 只是偶爾朋友還是會約聚餐
假如正好約在「我老公當晚有課」(他在職進修中) 他就沒什麼意見
但約在影響到他的時間 比方因為我去聚餐 導致他一人在家 他就會很不高興
他的說法是: 妳去外面吃飯 讓我一個人在家?
我認為這又牽扯到他的佔有欲 其實我覺得有些霸道
但結婚後 他去那一定都帶著我 也沒有工作之外的私人活動
所以我沒立場反駁他 因為他什麼都是考慮到我們兩個人一起做
我的約會已經很少了 一個月一次或沒有 為了避免他因為一個人在家不爽
有時我還會硬著頭皮問朋友「聚餐能帶我老公來嗎」 真的很尷尬
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