Re: [苦惱]先生太笨....
看板marriage作者michelle0815 (michelle)時間10年前 (2013/11/11 23:46)推噓1(19推 18噓 101→)留言138則, 43人參與討論串12/18 (看更多)
看完了這篇,只想說,或許原PO沒有經歷過失去家人的遺憾,
無法體會這種擔心以後不能一家人出國去玩的感覺,只要有心,行程都是可以規劃的
畢竟是自由行不是嗎?
或許原PO對於此次行程充滿期待,覺得幻滅,可是你跟你先生還有很長的路要走,
今年不能單獨兩個人去,明年或後年也可以呀,可是長輩還有多少日子陪在身邊?
也或許這輩子之後沒幾次出國機會了,老公會先斬後奏,應該是有原因,就是知道
你不可能答應,但又非常想帶爸媽出國,夫妻相處是需要長久經營的,如果
連帶爸媽出國玩這種小事情,都讓你老公覺得你無法溝通而先斬後奏,再加上讓你
知道以後你發脾氣,相信你老公更篤定當初沒先跟你商量是對的,未來會有更多這樣
的事情發生。其實就是站在對方的角度去想事情,婚姻才能走下去。
我猜想你們可能還沒有小孩吧,如果以後有小孩,兒子長大娶了老婆,你兒子很孝順的
想帶你出國,卻被媳婦以行動不方便生氣的在網路上罵你兒子笨,還要逼你兒子
勸退你不要跟他們出國,不知道你是什麼感覺?
你會很期待這次的旅行,我相信你的公婆應該也是,畢竟出國跟在台灣是不一樣的感受
所以,去武陵賞櫻感覺一定跟日本賞櫻不同,如果你老公跟你說這次不要去日本,
他會熬夜訂武陵農場的住宿補償你,你覺得這樣能弭補不去日本的遺憾嗎?
如果你可以,那我想妳公婆應該也可以相反的,如果你覺得是完全不同的,
那你也不應該用同樣的標準要求你的公婆也要接受。
自己的婚姻要靠自己經營,多些體貼與同理心,讓你老公願意跟你討論及分享想法
才是重要的。
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