[閒聊] 老婆說想要離職,我的心情轉變
昨天睡前老婆跟我說她覺得好累,想要離職。
也問說這樣我壓力會不會很大。我馬上回說不會,但是你的壓力可能會很大,
因為錢全部都是你在管,這樣花錢就必須要小心控制。
我說這話的同時其實我有一點不開心,但是我根本不敢表現出來。
接著也說了一些抱怨我說話不得體,讓她覺得不舒服的地方,
例如我前幾天提醒她大兒子的安親班費用我們是一次繳一學期,
因此可能要每個月都存一點錢,以應付四個月後的另一筆錢。
她覺得我這樣說就是在責怪她平常都亂花錢,其實她根本沒有亂花錢之類的。
我有一點驚訝她會對我當時這樣說產生這樣的反應,我從來不過問她用錢的方式,
但是也只能安慰她並解釋我並沒有這樣的意思。
昨晚我睡不好,我相信她也沒睡好。
今天我一樣早上起床、出門上班,
在火車上我越想越不是滋味,我覺得我的收入並不高,
我一直以為她能體會雙薪對家裡生活以及孩子教育的重要。
我一直想,越想越生氣:
好阿,你就做家庭主婦阿,你就看看每個月我給你的三萬元要如何養活一家人?
好阿,以後小孩的安親班以及幼稚園都可以不用上了,反正你可以全職照顧,
到時候不要跟我抱怨帶孩子很辛苦。
總之,我越想就有越多不好的想法跟惡毒的心態充滿了我的大腦。
到了辦公室,看到記事本上一堆要完成的工作,打開email就有更多的事情冒出來。
但是不知怎麼的,我看著這些工作,突然難過了起來。
是阿,其實老婆每天上班也跟我一樣要面對這麼多煩人的工作,
我至少沒有煩人的主管,她卻每一分鐘都想要殺死她那王八蛋的老闆(誇示法)。
下了班,她要去接小孩下課,卻又要跟剛上小學的大兒子許多搞不定的事奮戰。
回到家,她還要準備晚餐,洗衣服,有時還要帶小孩去上鋼琴課。
相反的,我的工作雖多,時間雖長,壓力不小,但是我卻只要專心面對工作的挑戰就好。
家裡的事情,我參與的太少了。
我暫時還不知道要怎麼改善這一切,但是我不再感到生氣,或者是不敢生氣,
今天晚上早點下班,來帶老婆小孩去吃大餐。
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