[心情] 婚姻中有錢的就是老大?
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事情開始是因為我花了100多塊買了一個app
被我老公發現 他覺得很浪費錢
就開始念我
每次吵架扯到錢 他最後一定會說
等你房子可以出一半錢再說
我和他都有工作
我花的錢也都是我自己賺的
只是我就是一般上班族 薪水固定 沒他賺得多
房子是婚前他買的 掛他名下 理所當然 沒什麼好說的
只是我最討厭 他每次吵架 都要拿房子是他出的錢 這件事來壓我
或是我們想換房子 我會說我想要怎樣怎樣的房子
他就會說一句: 妳出了多少錢? 那妳出一半啊
或是說:我出錢 我決定
是說如果我有夠多錢 房子我當然願意出一半
只是就算出不起一半的錢
都已經是夫妻了 為什麼還要說房子是誰買的 沒出錢的在這家就好像沒資格講話一樣
夫妻應該是這樣的嗎
我們的家用也是共同帳戶 兩人各出一半
不是各自薪水的一半
是他拿兩萬 我也拿兩萬
我也沒少出
就是我住的房子是他出的錢
所以我就注定卑微?
我愈來愈納悶婚姻到底是建築在愛上面,還是錢上面
還是,賺比較多錢的那一方其實都會忍不住這樣想
賺比較少錢的那一方就會不服氣
我不想計較那麼多 但大概會被說:妳出比較少錢 當然沒什麼好計較
有時氣到真的想自己搬出去算了 省得每次都被他拿錢來壓我
但我想他大概只會說:好啊,掰掰
啊 好煩
難道 婚姻中真的有錢的就是老大嗎
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其實家事也是我和我老公一人一半,所以我也沒辦法拿
這來回嘴
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沒有經濟壓力,只是因為我和他意見不同,他覺得要以出
錢的人意見為主.但常常把這話掛在嘴邊說,我覺得有點
傷感情吧
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