[討論] 婆家的家事
我們夫妻倆在苗栗工作,寶寶放台中婆家給婆婆顧
平常晚上能回台中就盡量回去看寶寶,常常台中、苗栗往返跑
我們在苗栗有員工宿舍,坪數還不小,四大房約60坪左右
由於早上從台中趕來苗栗上班,晚上就又回台中去看寶寶
所以我只能利用午休的時間整理在苗栗的宿舍,洗衣、打掃等等,沒有時間煮飯
有時候婆婆有煮,我們就回台中吃;如果婆婆沒煮,我們就外食完再回去
我自己的衣物都在苗栗換洗,寶寶和老公的衣物則是在台中換洗
因為我白天都集中火力工作,連中午都沒時間睡覺,還要做家事
所以回台中就盡量把時間拿來陪寶寶,而且我白天已經很累了
晚上除了陪寶寶以外就不會再主動幫忙台中的家事
有時候我看桶子裡如果剛好只有寶寶和老公的衣服,我才會拿來洗
要是混有公婆和小姑的衣物,我就不會幫忙洗,因為我洗衣服的方式他們也不太滿意
是婆婆等到晚上我們把小孩接手後,他才「加班」洗衣服
今天公公有點不高興,把我們夫妻倆訓了一頓
說我們回來都把家當旅社,把媽媽當保母,也不主動幫忙家事
我覺得很委屈,苗栗的家也要我整理,台中的家還要幫忙
而且我們在台中的房間地板和垃圾也都是自己清潔的
我承認我沒有煮飯和洗先生小孩的衣服的確是懶惰
但是一個人要上班還要顧二個家
又不是在多賢慧,真的很難作到
我很想把小孩帶回苗栗自己找保母帶,可是先生認為我不能剝奪祖孫情
這樣子通車和工作真的是占掉很多時間
在公婆眼中,我大概就是一個很不盡責的媳婦吧
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