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冷靜了幾天,向老婆道歉,雖說問題的根源尚未解決,不過至少相處起來融洽得多,她也明白我的處境以及努力,至少現階段我們有了共識
托鄉民的福 ,點出了許多問題的癥結,更有鄉民擔心我們店的收入,還特別Google出店名地址來讓大家來捧場,不勝感激…
在此與版眾分享一下這次的心得
首先,不要在生氣的時候去做溝通,這點我們夫妻都犯了錯,冷靜下來,道個歉先,氣氛也就緩和了,之後再去釐清問題,為了彼此,沒什麼不能讓的
再者,心情都需要宣泄或是慰藉,像我就是很容易顯現情緒,像她就是會去壓抑情緒,彼此多溝通,別讓過大的壓力傷害了對方
很多時候,自己不願意承認或是沒有發現的人格特質,往往被點出的時候會非常生氣,這有個特別的辭來形容,不過我一時想不起來,總之面對批評,虛心受教就是不論對錯,至少多了認識自己的機會
感謝熱情的版眾,這次真的受教了
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