[心情]曾想把你們當父母看待,你們知道嗎?
看板marriage作者jw0935231271 (★澎湖a藤原柚子★)時間11年前 (2013/02/19 00:09)推噓21(21推 0噓 74→)留言95則, 30人參與討論串1/3 (看更多)
結婚前,結婚後,婆婆態度讓我不敢置信
可能因為結婚前,我還算是"客人"
所以,婆婆的態度很客氣,也因這樣,讓我婚前時對婆婆印象大好
但是,婚後整個就不是我所想像的那樣...(一結婚就住老公家)
我很努力的想要融入這個家庭
所以,一但有好吃的,總是會跟老公說,幫公婆多買一份
但是婆婆看到之後總是不領情,覺得不合胃口之類...
婆婆其實很喜歡打扮,(無論是保養品還是包包都是高檔貨@@")
其實女人都愛打扮...也常看婆婆戴珍珠之類的飾品
所以,某天有個機會,送了婆婆一對珍珠耳環
但是卻被嫌棄到不行...也沒看婆婆戴過我買的珍珠耳環
所以久而久之,我都也不在買了,怕多買多錯,多爭執
我喜歡房間裡的東西,是照著自己習慣方式擺放,比較好找
可是...常常有時候回家,發現化妝台裡的保養品位置,跟自己擺放的方式有點不同
我也不會想太多,想說是自己沒放好之類的...
直到有一天,就在初五的時候,婆婆當著老公的面,很生氣的連名帶性的叫我
說我都不打掃,不拖地板,地板都是灰塵了,化妝品買一堆,東西亂丟...
我真的是很冤枉阿...
(初二晚上九點多回娘家,直到初四下午回來,我也才兩天沒拖地板...
至於東西亂丟也很冤,因為有幫朋友買伴手禮,朋友還沒來拿,所以先擺在地上
因為伴手禮有一箱阿,不放地板,我要放哪?化妝品則也很冤,那些都是很便宜的開架
基本上真的不多,就那七八樣東西,比起婆婆的保養品,我不但少了一大半,連價格
我都無法與之相比,重點那是我賺的錢買的,並沒用我老公的錢)
後來想一想不太對,照婆婆這樣說,就表示他有在進我們房間...
我是個很注重隱私的人,希望有能自己的空間,雖說這是公婆家...
但是總有個人隱私的權利吧...(跟老公溝通,他總是說這是他家...)
婆婆還會跟鄰居談天說地...不外乎就是說我有多差,鄰居有時講話比較不好聽
讓我真的感覺很難過...想反駁,又怕拆了婆婆的台...不反駁,又覺得冤枉
我很努力的在改善婆媳之間,我真的很希望把他當我父母來供養
但是,婆婆在老公不在時對我找麻煩的動作,一直讓我深感無力阿...
所以總是很矛盾,想對婆婆好一點,又怕好意又變自作多情...
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