[求助] 我爸爸
我新婚不到一個月。
婚前我爸爸為我(跟老公)向婆家爭取了房子,其實就是沒解決住房問題就沒得談(婚事),住婆家完全不是選項,所以只有買/租。結果是買了。
買房跟婚禮籌備期間,我爸像是沒參與,實際上他的強勢蓋過了所有人,包括公婆。
我爸嫌我老公是公務員,薪水低(沒考慮我也有收入),家境不怎麼樣,但其實婆家前後付出了快400萬,而我們幾乎只是準備嫁妝而已。我覺得兩人的薪水加起來其實不是那麼辛苦,是付房貸及還公婆頭期款,先不生小孩。
我爸婚前說明將來我嫁了,他就無法照顧我了,因為是出嫁女。姑姑甚至奶奶聽了都匪夷所思,因為還是女兒嘛。
我跟老公是遠距婚姻,再過半年我才搬去跟他住,目前我上班下班還是回娘家住。
婚後我們去渡蜜月了,姑姑問我爸我何時回來,我爸說"出嫁女我不知道",使得我姑姑以為我們怎麼了。我想,他是不習慣我已經嫁了,這句話他是跟自己說的。
親戚們都叫我多跟我爸溝通,老實說我們都不大善於溝通,我到十歲才跟他住,還有後母。他表達得很不好,而我又直直的聽進去,溝通效果都不好。小時候我寫信,他卻覺得父女倆有甚麼不能用講的,淪落到用寫的?
我想請教大家,我可以做些甚麼呢?(他是個很少表露情感的生意人,動之以情比較不可能)
謝謝!
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