[閒聊] 請問結婚的對象真的是自己的最愛的人嗎??
我對於婚姻有一個小小的問題
雖然我身邊有不少人都走入婚姻結婚了
可是我一直有一個小小的疑惑
但這個疑惑我都沒有真正去問過別人
因為我總覺得很可能我得到的答案,不一定就是他們內心真正的想法
後來我想如果是在彼此不認識、無利害關係下問這個問題
會不會願意分享的人說出的答案會比較真實
"結婚的愛侶..他們選擇的對象真的都是彼此內心真正的最摯愛的人嗎???"
還是說至少那當下---是的。
我不是心存疑慮,或本身預期想聽到、得到我預期的答案...
可是我真的很困惑...這些即將踏進婚姻或已經走進婚姻的人
他們是怎麼肯定或知道這個原本的陌生人,就是自己這一輩子要互相陪伴一生的人
到底是甚麼樣的愛和原因,讓他們願意勇敢做出這樣的承諾和決定.....
各位在婚姻中的人會鼓勵別人也走進婚姻嗎??還是說談談戀愛就好???
人生好難決定呀!!
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