[苦惱] 親家幫忙做月子的問題
是這樣的....
我家嫂子上個月生了小寶貝,在她自己家做月子,
因為我家去年底時失火挺嚴重的,家裡有裝修
怕她懷孕時家裡敲敲打打對她不好所以我哥叫她先回家裡住
一直到家裡裝修好,因為她上班的地方離她家很近,
我家到她公司騎車也要40分鐘左右,為了安全
我哥也叫她生完看怎樣在回來,到上個月時生完我們是只有到親家看過一次
因為我媽覺得很彆扭不想太常去....
後來今天看到嫂子在FB發文類似說"這種事情叫媳婦怎麼開口問"之類的PO文
我就打電話給她問她怎麼了,她就跟我說親家們跟她們親戚都在講我媽什麼都沒準備
很兩光的親家,連紅包都沒包什麼的,也很少去看小寶貝,她說她對她自己爸媽
都很不好意,說她爸媽都睡不飽要幫忙照顧小寶貝...
我也不知道要回什麼,因為我們家沒有什麼錢,我媽媽也沒在工作,只是偶而會接看護
一天幾個小時的工作,沒有很常,偶而才接,但我相信如果今天她是在我家做月子我媽
也會把她照顧好好的....只是我哥沒讓她在家裡做月子,我哥覺得嫂子在她自己家比較
輕鬆而且她爸媽沒在工作比較能專心照顧他們....
我媽之前就有跟我說她會包紅包,但要小孩滿月帶回來家裡時才會拿給她
我也有在電話中跟我嫂子說明媽媽會包紅包,她聽了是直接回我,滿月都過了有什麼用
我是不知道習俗是怎樣><"但我媽是連七月半都沒拜拜的人所以當然不會管那些
我今天有問我媽說紅包她要包多少,她是跟我說6000,我想請問大家,這種情況下
親家幫忙做月子,我們應該要包多少紅包才不會被說閒話說的這麼難聽><"
因為嫂子在電話中有跟我提到說我哥哥有先拿一萬給親家,但根本就不夠用,所以我想
6000應該是有點失禮了...到底大概要多少比較適當呢?
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探訪那次媽媽帶了2罐油過去,但嫂子昨天跟我說她媽媽說帶油去是能幹嘛..所以我想我
媽媽應該帶錯了....
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媽媽當初有說看她要在我們家做月子還是在她家做月子她都沒意見,但後來嫂子似乎決定
在她家做月子,因為出院就直接抱回她家了...但如果是在我們家做月子我媽媽也會很願
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媽媽的確是要給孫子,似乎不是要感謝對方,因為是嫂子自己選擇要回家做月子
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