Re: [求助] 大嫂的態度轉變
原文恕刪
這篇文章要不是寫文章的人是小姑我可能會以為在說我XD
想想,只要我和我先生吵架他就一定叫我媽來家裡談離婚
然後他們家人當時也說了一句話
跟原po說的一樣
我想說的是,不要把大嫂想的那麼現實
畢竟實際上跟我們想的不見得是一樣的
當我媽轉述婆家說的這句話之後我心裡想的是"到底是誰婚後變了還不知道呢"
人會改變不是一朝一夕的
當你們認為媳婦婚後改變,其實我這個當媳婦的也覺得結完婚婆家真面目就顯現了
畢竟不是從小就生活在同一個家庭,對當媳婦的人來說這是一個新環境
這也不是自己的父母自己的兄弟姊妹
我相信也是有人可以把婆家的人當成自己親人
但不是每個媳婦都辦的到
很多看不慣的地方如果跟自己的先生反應得到的卻是像搓湯圓或者是一昧護著自家人
那麼就只能把自己的怨氣吞到肚子裡,幾次之後積怨更深就不是那麼簡單可以解開的
一開始的付出人家覺得是正常是應該的,但是摩擦越多不滿越多
一旦自己改變了態度就會被當成是現實,好像就是目的達到了就變了個人似的
有時候不要一昧的把錯推給對婆家來說是外人的媳婦
自己應該也要檢討一下
一直想說自己家人沒問題,有時候反而是自家人問題最大
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