現況:我 -在台北工作,自己住,租屋;懷孕,預產期八月,預計產後留停半年
老公-在台中工作,跟父母住
我跟老公看台中房子一段時間,想買兩個人的第一間房子
最近終於找到條件跟預算都符合我們要求的房子
但公公一個略懂風水(?)的朋友跟我公婆說
今年是衝南邊,這個房子就正好衝到了
如果今年要買、要裝潢可以
但不能住進去,要等明年二月過完年才能住進去
公婆要我們先把房子租出去,等明年二月再住進去
等於是,我今年中生產完、留職停薪的半年,要跟公婆同住
等到明年二月,可以住進去的時間,我也差不多要復職回台北工作了
現在感到非常非常地苦惱,因為我就是不想跟公婆住
至於原因,應該多數人都能了解
老公也了解我的立場
但現在的狀況,讓我們不知道用什麼說法、或作法
達到我們原本想要自己搬出去住的意圖
總不能跟公婆說就是不想同住吧...@@"
我屆時又剛生產完,他們會說住家裡還有人可以幫忙照顧
但,就算帶小孩帶到累昏頭
就算我不留停,必須把小孩帶到台北一邊工作自己帶
也不願意、住在在台中,整天跟公婆同住在一個房子裡面
請問版友們
有沒有什麼說法,可以讓我合情合理地住在外面嗎?
我們也有想過租房子,實在找不出合理的藉口阿..
各位版友,有沒有什麼經驗或是說法可以分享一下呢~@@"
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