主要是關於1.小姑 2.洗碗
我和老公結婚後,住在公婆家附近。因為很近,都要回去吃飯(婆婆規定)。
婆婆也會要我準備一些菜,還有規定我要洗碗,我覺得這樣很好,算是也有幫忙到家事。
小姑已經結婚了,但因為工作地點在我公婆家附近,幾乎每天中午和晚上都會回來吃飯,
小姑的先生也會一起過來吃。
but....我覺得不開心的是,他們把我應該洗碗這件事情當作"理所當然"
有時候小姑比較晚到家吃飯,我老公想要找我出門散步,就叫我把流理檯裡的碗先洗,
婆婆就會說"小姑還沒吃完啊" 或者小姑會立刻把飯吃完,然後把碗丟給我。
WHY? 瞬間我覺得自己好像外傭,這一切這麼應該。
而小姑和她先生這樣這樣天天回家吃飯,完全沒有幫忙過任何家事。
吃完飯只要拍拍屁股"我們回家囉~",婆婆還會替小姑準備切好的水果,讓他們帶回家吃
我也不敢在婆婆面前使喚老公洗碗,不過婆婆不在時,老公會自動進入洗碗狀態XD
我覺得難過,媽媽把我養這麼大,是來替你們家洗碗??
我和老公提過我的想法,他卻說,因為在公婆心理小姑賺的錢比較多(但也沒有拿回家)。
所以?? 只要會賺錢就不用學習待人處世嗎,後來我很生氣,老公才發現自己說錯話了
我不懂~ 是我太小氣了嗎? 想想只不過是洗個碗這種小事,可是讓我很不開心...
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