Re: 請問結婚會考慮對方兄弟姊妹的狀況再結嗎?
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其實結婚真的要考慮一下對方家裡狀況
像我自己是還好,老公就一個哥哥,家裡就他們兄弟倆
哥哥今年32歲還沒結婚,但工作也穩定,也會拿錢回家孝順父母
公婆兩人自己也都還有工作
我跟老公婚後兩人自己住在外地,偶爾才回去
所以雖然他們家並不富裕(也沒負債)
但我覺得這樣的家庭滿單純的,嫁進去可以很自由
事實上我現在結婚快兩年,過的生活跟以前單身沒兩樣
我想說說我妹妹的狀況
我妹妹跟男朋友交往了兩年,感情穩定
去年中我爺爺過世,她男朋友也以”未婚夫”的身份來參加告別世
我們全家人也都覺得他們差不多該結婚了,
但因為男方家人的關係所以我妹很猶豫,
男方本身的條件還不錯,在大公司當主管,收入不差
大我妹七歲,有點年紀了,之前也交過幾個女朋友
但前女友們會分手也都卡在他家人那一關
首先~男方的爸爸長年洗腎,媽媽癌症在做化療
然後男方是老么,上面有四個姐姐,三個沒結婚
唯一結婚那個生了三個小孩,帶著三個小孩住娘家
也就是說他家有:爸爸/媽媽/四個姐姐/三個外甥女/姐夫
結婚的那個姐姐沒在工作,還規定大家把薪水交給她由她保管
她每個月蒐集大家薪水後,再一人發一些零用錢給他們
剩的就說是公基金不准隨便亂用,有急用要申請
然後我妹男友身為家中獨子,非常有責任感
他說只要姐姐們還在家裡的一天,他就有責任要照顧她們
說我妹如果嫁過去,要伺候這一大家子之外,薪水也要給姐姐處理分配
......光聽到這些我就覺得,是我的話我也不敢嫁
所以說對方的家庭成員們絕對是婚姻的一大考量啊!(  ̄ c ̄)y▂ξ
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