[苦惱] 婆婆說今年不要回娘家(代po)
大家好~我幫朋友問,因為她不會用PTT~
她上個月跟她老公結婚~等於這是她結婚第一個過年~
她婆婆今天跟她說~因為是結婚第一年,希望她整個春節都待在夫家!
可是她小姑跟她一樣是上個月嫁出去~年初二會回娘家
她婆婆還叫她要準備給小姑的紅包~
我跟她說這不合理~也不合禮數阿!哪有年初二不回娘家的,這太奇怪了~
包紅包給小姑就更莫名其妙~平輩姻親哪有在給紅包的
而且她小姑也回娘家阿~那就表示她婆家不是不知道禮數~是雙重標準
我說"妳老公難道都不覺得他妹妹回娘家阿妳不能回娘家這樣很奇怪嗎?"
她說"我有跟他說,他只叫我乖一點,不要讓他媽媽不高興"
我說"不然妳就跟他裝可憐,跟他說看到小姑回娘家,妳就會想到妳爸媽也在等妳回去"
她說"我不知道耶~可是萬一我這樣講被他以為我是說小姑不應該回來怎麼辦?"
嗚.....我回答不出來!畢竟我自己沒結婚~其實不太能體會這個難處.....
所以幫朋友來問這邊的太太們~妳們會怎麼跟老公溝通回娘家的問題呢?
PS~
我朋友是很乖很單純的女生~她爸媽不太喜歡她老公,她每次都夾在中間很為難
當初她要嫁的時候,她媽媽發了好大一頓脾氣,因為準婆婆一開口就要100萬現金的嫁妝
聘禮卻都選便宜貨,金飾都是跟親戚借用的,還放話聘金只是放著給人看,婚禮完要還
(有沒有真的還我不知道~她講這個都講到快要哭了,我不忍心問~)
她媽媽覺得夫家瞧不起她,沒有把她當清白人家的女兒看
我也有點替她不平,覺得她老公沒有很挺她,可是是她的選擇,所以我也不想批評她老公怎樣
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