[苦惱] 聽到我生病就煩,還想要我生小孩..
跟老公結婚兩年了
平常相處算是平順
不過只要我生活上一有小問題 他就會不耐煩
例如
1. 剛換工作時
他問我上班整體情形怎樣
我說到我上班狀況都不錯 唯一問題就是通車時間長了點有點不習慣
他就直接撇過頭去不理我
2. 季節變換生病
我跟他說想去看醫生 問他能不能陪我去
他要我自己去
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當初就講好規劃中沒有一定要有小孩
可是他最近忽然很想要有小孩
偏偏我只要一想到 平常我一有"小事"他就會不耐煩
懷孕等於是身體可能處於不舒服的狀態幾個月
生產後又要調理身體 小孩一出生一定又有大小瑣事等等...
生小孩這件"大事" 我覺得單靠我自己應付不來 他又不可能幫我
想到這些我真的不想生
我有跟他溝通不想生的理由
他說懷孕和小孩的事他一定會參與
我婆婆也一直說他兒子遇到老婆懷孕 有小孩一定就會改變
那是她兒子她很了解
而且她會幫我阿等等...
(好吧我承認我不是很相信他跟他媽的說法...冏
我目前還是認為並不能靠一個小孩改變男人的習慣...)
想聽聽大家犀利的看法~
謝謝大家!
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