[閒聊] 為什麼有人喜歡唱衰別人的婚姻?
因緣認識一些人妻姊姊們,婚姻年資大約有10年以上。
和他們聊天的時候,聊到我和我先生的感情很不錯,
兩個人會溝通、會體諒、會分享,幾乎不太會有爭吵,
他們就會吐槽說「那是現在,以後你就知道balabala...男人有多糟有多糟」,
還不斷告訴我「婚姻沒有每天在過年的」一定會遭遇什麼恐怖的事情...之類的。
當然,我知道夫妻之間的相處一定有好的時候也有爭執的時候,
最重要的是我們要如何面對這些問題,並且去解決,
這些概念我都懂,我們也親身經歷過一些爭執,但也能順利的化解問題。
所以,我再跟他們分享我們曾發生的爭執並解決的方式,
並表示夫妻之間只要有誠意,其實沒有什麼解決不了的問題,
他們再次給我打擊,告訴我「男人現在願意解決,以後你就知道他不會退讓...」,
還不斷告訴我沒有一段婚姻是完美的,要我小心自己。
當我聽完這些,其實內心是不太同意也不太高興的,
不過我表面上還是感謝他們的分享及指教,
但我內心真正納悶的是,人家夫妻明明就相處的好好的,為什麼一定要這樣恐嚇人家?
再者,他們也不認識我先生,為什麼就認定他以後會是他們口中的爛男人?
後來我追問了那位大姊,
他說他和他先生相處了10幾年,小孩最大的高中、小的念國小,
夫妻倆也沒有什麼大問題,只是有一些生活習慣他看不慣他先生而已,
他先生也並不是他口中的爛人、壞人,
那既然他先生很好,我也一直說我先生很好,那為什麼一直唱衰我們的婚姻呢?
難道是......他會看面相預測我們的未來嗎?那也太扯了吧! = =
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