Re: [心情] 被罵得很冤枉
我不知道大家到親戚家的習慣是什麼?
我家裡教育就是到人家家裡要叫人,
所以我到親戚家第一件事情就是把長輩都找出來叫過一輪。
更不用說吃飯,一定要打招呼。
很重要嗎?非常重要!老一輩的人非常在意這一點,
因為這是他們憑斷你有沒有尊重他們的一個標準。
沒做到,你後面的事情做再好也沒用,因為他們已經認定你不尊重他們了。
何況今天假設飯菜都是外婆煮的,結果沒人關心他吃飽沒,打聲招呼也沒有,
自己默默的去洗衣服,如果還沒吃飯,洗完衣服你們也吃飽了,他也只能吃剩菜。
你們有去關心他吃飯了沒嗎?
沒有時機點叫人?我到覺得時機點很多。
洗澡時,可以在門口叫:阿嬤,我們回來了。
阿嬤,一起吃飯了。
洗澡出來的時候:阿嬤,在忙什麼,怎麼不先吃飯,先別忙了一起吃飯吧。
至於阿嬤罵人,我是覺得她是在罵你不叫人,而不是指嬰兒。
因為嬰兒本來就不會講話,有些老人家會戲稱嬰兒啞巴。
再想深入點,我會覺得那兩人不是指你跟小孩,而是你們夫妻倆。
原OP你沒做錯什麼,只是"天然呆"點,而去踩到阿嬤的地雷,
但是阿嬤的地雷有沒有道理,這要你自己去想想。
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不習慣在浴室門口叫人,那出來總可以叫人吧?
不好意思,我想請問一下阿嬤的移動速度是時速多少?你唸阿嬤的速度有多慢?
好!我們退一步來說,你說話的速度跟不上阿嬤的速度,那麼移動一下到阿嬤的身邊,
請他來吃飯有何不可?畢竟這頓飯也是阿嬤辛苦煮出來的,阿嬤自己有沒有吃都還不知道
,難道你移動腳步去關心一下會比阿嬤煮一桌菜辛苦?
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