Re: [黑特]我老婆的毛病又犯了
我老婆是家庭主婦, 也是很會花錢. 家用不算, 花的錢應該不比你老婆少.
她花的錢和一般女生不一樣, 不買名牌, 不太買保養品, 但喜歡買一些奇怪的東西
像是高轉速果菜機(好像是15000rpm), 排出來的空氣沒味道的吸塵器,
透氣的登山外套(高山用), 切肉片機(從沒用過就是了)等...
以前我為了這件事情覺得很煩... 常跟她發脾氣. 要她克制.
她都說以後會注意, 但實際上沒用.
但因為還負擔的起, 我還是給她用錢的自由.
這樣的情形維持了5,6年吧.
2年多前, 我們開始記帳了. 也把帳戶分開了.
她每個月記帳花多少,我就補給她多少. 我也記自己所花的每一筆錢.
記了一段時間後, 弄清楚了我們一年需要花多少錢.
說來奇怪, 雖然現在全家花的錢不比以前少, 但我心裡卻不再煩了.
差別就在於我們弄清楚了一年的支出是多少, 而收入又比支出多,
以前那些煩人的感覺就不見了, 反而覺得看老婆那麼開心也讓自己很開心.
心煩是來自於不確定感, 一但把財務的細節弄清楚, 會花錢也沒關係啊,
只要能負擔就好了. 不是嗎?
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