[閒聊] 為什麼小孩是屬於男方那邊?
我想問板上的大家
夫妻兩個人生了小孩以後
同樣都要賺錢養這個小孩
為什麼在傳統上這個小孩就是屬於男方那邊的小孩
不是女方的?
在結婚了以後 為什麼男方的父母就變成女方的父母
而女方的父母依然是女方的父母
又為什麼女方結婚之後 好像照顧公婆做家事住男方家裡都很正常
明明婚姻裡有這麼多的不公平 為什麼我們的社會還不改變?
台灣雖然是一個尊重女性的國家
但是台灣的婚姻制度依然是為了男生而制定的
看了很多婚姻板上的文章 真心的發現很多婚姻裡面的殘酷
是源自於根深蒂固的父權制度
跟你挑的這個男人個性如何沒啥關係 很多時候婚姻前睜大眼睛可能也沒什麼用
因為婚姻的問題很可能跟妳結婚的這個男人一點關係都沒有...
我現在真的很嚴重的考慮要不要踏進婚姻裡面
一想到"媳婦"兩個字帶來的無條件責任和義務就覺得很討厭
有人跟我一樣看了這個版而對婚姻卻步嗎?
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