[心情] 有時想來還真有點心酸
看板marriage作者nectarine (不要覺得offended)時間13年前 (2010/09/22 06:14)推噓27(27推 0噓 48→)留言75則, 28人參與討論串1/2 (看更多)
剛剛爬了一下文
只要輸入"外人"兩字 就會看到很多女生抱怨當媳婦的辛酸
覺得媳婦永遠都和女兒不一樣
媳婦永遠是外人
自己最近還蠻感同身受的
小事諸如公公寄卡片給我老公
卡片上面畫了兩個大愛心
寫了爸爸媽媽
大愛心的底下有兩個小愛心
寫著我老公和他妹的名字
我原本沒有要看卡片內容的
不過是我老公很興奮 拿著卡片說要攤開擺在客廳櫃子上
我一看就忍不住冒火
都結婚了 還是沒想到我的存在
這些都是小事
不過最近我老公家親戚有件大事情
婆婆也是百般叮嚀老公說不要跟我說
老公有任何煩惱都會跟我說
所以我蠻欣慰的
只是 婆婆這樣對老公說
我多少覺得有一種被隔開的感覺
想到我自己的媽媽在奶奶家也曾經有這種感覺
常常我爸的兄弟姊妹和爺爺奶奶開家庭會議
就先擺明著說"媳婦們不列席"
我媽和嬸嬸們也只能背後裡怨嘆
"媳婦終究是外人 當了20 30幾年的媳婦 沒想到我們在他們眼中還是外人啊.."
這樣的感覺真的很差..
傳統上都說女兒是嫁出去了的
女兒多多少少就會跟原生家庭切割
嫁進了婆家 幸運的話婆婆小姑們對媳婦好 就萬事OK 有了歸屬感
可是運氣不好 就被一直認為是外人
那真正的家在哪??
是不是最好的方式就是算了 不要想那麼多
忘了這些有的沒的
然後把專注力放在自己和老公組成的小家庭就好?
可是... 要全然忘記這些有的沒的 好像又沒那麼容易...
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