Re: [苦惱] 該如何和講話比較酸的婆婆應對?
※ 引述《mondena (蘋果妹)》之銘言:
: 因為覺得最近已經有點快忍受不了了~
: 我從懷孕到目前帶小孩大概有一年半的時間是呆在家的~
: 可是每天呆在家就算有小孩要照顧~也真的很悶~
: 去娘家會被婆婆唸~老公帶我跟小孩出去也會被唸~
: 坦白說小孩子才六個月也不適合常常帶出門~
: 呆在家就會被婆婆唸說看我帶小孩很輕鬆~說我很好命~
: 我也都是左耳進~右耳出~盡量要自己別想太多~
: 這陣子因為娘家那邊有點事情~所以情緒很低落~
: 孩子只是稍微哭一下~婆婆就要我馬上去抱~我跟婆婆說我不要一直抱~
: 婆婆就說:只要顧一個小孩就受不了囉~在家閒閒的~不抱小孩要幹麻?!
: 埃埃~因為不是一次兩次~我就整個臉一沉~但又不敢起爭執~
: 老公其實也都知道~但是畢竟婆婆年紀大了~我跟老公都認為我應該要多忍耐~
: 作過一陣子網拍~婆婆會每天問我賣得如何~有時候沒生意也得裝作有生意的樣子~
: 想請問大家一般都如何在不能外出的情況下排解情緒以及如何跟婆婆應對~
: 我現在會去買雜誌來看~看看PPS~可是又變成有點千篇一律的生活了~
: 出去工作跟學東西是不可能~因為小孩喝母乳~
: 這個版好像也可以討論婆婆問題~
: 拜託有經驗的人給我些意見吧~~真是非常感激不盡~
看到大家的回應超感動的~
所有的結論就是'忍耐'~
其實我自己也知道~老公很能體會我的心情~這是目前唯一慶幸的~
因為婆婆個性很有主見也很強勢~
所以我都會裝作自己蛇麼都不會~裝到後來連我自己的孩子都認為我是個毫無廚藝的媽媽~
包含連老二的副食品現在也可以不用我煮了~
婆婆說我煮得很難吃~就算是大人也會這樣覺得~
我老公就跟我婆婆說那以後由他來煮~
顯然我現在真的可以當少奶奶了~
以前在工作上可以受到上司肯定~在娘家會被自己的媽媽稱讚~在感情上老公也很依賴我~
但是現在這些都沒了~沒有成就感~沒有當媽媽的喜悅~蛇麼都被閒到一無是處~
今天接到我弟的電話是一整個崩潰地大哭~我跟我弟說~我自己好像廢人一樣~
我弟傻眼到不行~因為他說從沒看過姐姐這麼沒自信~
我真的很想趕快渡過這個低潮期~講太多又怕被大家認為我很會抱怨~>"<~
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