[心情] 滾吧!愛撒嬌的T
妳可曾發現有些T很愛「撒嬌」?(又一副大T樣)
有本書叫《會撒嬌的女人最好命》,這本書可不是在講那種
早上醒不來、中午吃太飽撐著、晚上太累不想動,想到很多
事該做就先乏了的人,經常在沙發上嘟嚷著要人服侍或溫柔
以對的傢伙。
會撒嬌的女人最好命,指的是高EQ、會說好話、會讚美的溫
柔女人,而不是時常想賴在女人胸前,等著被餵食長不大的
T。
沒錯,我輕視愛撒嬌的T。
「精神上擅長乞食的人,也擅長用精神上的勒索。他不斷的
把自己的人生責任轉嫁給『值得信任的人』以求減輕生命的
重量....」
當這個人經常用「撒嬌」來減輕生活的壓力時,其實已經在
對別人進行勒索了。撒嬌代表站在弱勢的一端,像懵懂小孩,
借著不成熟的語句,要求想要的。
給?明明是個大人,一撒嬌就要滿足願望,太便宜妳了!
不給?是不是表示不愛對方了?
撒嬌模糊焦點,故意示弱的一方,成為必須同情的對象,就
像推著輪椅來到跟前賣妳小包面紙抹布的陌生人。妳別過頭
去,成為最沒同情心的人。但後來她從輪椅上站起來回瞪妳。
有人說,世人皆同情弱者,摸摸頭不就得了?何況有愛。
但,愛撒嬌的T,一旦是習慣,那就沒完沒了惡性循環。再
怎麼俠骨柔情,面對不知節制的仰仗,總有一天將成為苦惱,
勉強配合久了,然後開始後悔,當初面對撒嬌為何一再縱容?
所以,滾吧!愛撒嬌的T!
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