[代po] 想知道同志朋友對婚姻的夢想
大家好,請讓我先自我介紹一下:我是一個對同性婚姻議題感興趣的男性、異性戀、
已婚、基督徒,女兒快3 個月大。
因為我對同志朋友們對於婚姻的想像十分的好奇,很希望能夠了解是什麼驅使大家
那麼努力的爭取法律上的婚姻關係?是基於某一種夢想嗎?遠景嗎?生活嗎?我這麼
說好了,相信大家不會生我的氣,因為我們真的不在同一個世界裡,甚至好像在兩顆
星球上。我怎麼樣搜尋文章、爬文,還是難以窺見全貌。實在好奇,希望能聽聽大家
怎麼說?
對於我個人來說,婚姻是附帶非常多事情的。自從我結婚之後,多了一個人花我的錢
,但是我甘心樂意。多了一對父母親(我太太的原生家庭),我不太了解他們,互動起
來的滋味很難說盡。多了一個人拖後腿,無論我想要住哪裡、去哪裡、作什麼工作,
還有更多事,都要尊重我的配偶。現在還多了一個跟我很像的小孩。說了這麼多,我.
的意思是:結婚某一個方面來說很麻煩阿!我平常很喜歡溜溜婚姻版,各種光怪陸離
的婚姻實況都有。從那裡就可以窺見婚姻常常是一場災難。若是同志朋友相愛,有必
要一定要結婚嗎?我深感好奇。對於異性戀來說,也有非常多人相愛但是不結婚,同
居了幾乎一輩子。如果追求真愛,那又如何切入對婚姻的需求呢?我好想知道同志朋
友們夢想中的婚姻生活喔,請分享~~~拜託。
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