[心情] 男友為了專心工作想分開...
跟男友在一起快兩年了
從熱戀期到漸漸邁入肉體冷淡期,但是還是交往的很愉快
後來變成有點小遠距離,但放假我都會去找他
然後他自從開始做跑新工作後,做的很成功,但是很忙
我很高興他終於找到自己發光發熱的舞台,因為從認識他時
他的工作就跌跌撞撞,直到這次終於做的很成功(幾千名員工排名前個位數)
而且是很認真投入,不是炒短線工作,我好為他開心
然後前幾天他跟我提暫時分開,因為想要專心衝年底的業績
但我感覺他可能對我有一點冷淡了
沒有說到分手 但是感覺相去不遠了
我算是比較慢熟的那種,但是一但熟了感情就放很多
但是常常投入後對方卻不愛了
上一個讓我放真感情的我花了三年才忘記他,我現在很害怕無助...
我猜他應該不是喜歡上別人,而是真的很專注於工作 + 對我有點淡掉
然後他也告訴我常常我跟他要那方面的事他沒辦法配合我,覺得我在委屈自己
其實我剛開始上班自己公司也很忙,而且一邊想投其他家工作
(這心態真的不好...只是不想待在家閒著...)
我現在一邊上班一邊心很慌
控制不住自己又發了一些挽留的話給他,但有經驗我知道感情中這只是越來越糟QQ
現在又很想放假去找他,但又怕他看到我起反感
我真的很怕分開後他遇到別的男生
無法想像他被別的男生抱著的情景
鄉民們可以給我點建議嗎...
我是雙性戀,我知道女性變了心是回不來的
但是我不知道男友是不是也這樣(目前感覺很像是)
在過一個多月是他的生日
我不知道能不能忍到那時候再找理由找他
嗚嗚嗚嗚嗚嗚.............
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