[心情]關於愛滋病的汙名
先說我本身也是同志,談論這個主題並不是要來討戰。
先從愛滋病汙名說起吧,我認為汙名的本質是一種由偏見發展出來的歧視,簡單來說就是
以偏概全。把一個群體裏小部分的人的負面作為,擴大到整個群體。這邊我指的負面作為
,就是不安全的性行為。這樣應該情況比較明朗,簡言之就是:男同志族群裡有一部分的
人因為進行不安全性行為感染愛滋,而剛好愛滋傳染途徑又以肛交(男同志常有的性行為
方式)為多,進而導致整個男同志族群因為少部分人的影響被汙名化。
這樣子的以偏概全當然要被譴責,毋需多言。但我想說的是,男同志遭到污名的確應該還
我們公道,停止這種言論。但是,這不代表那些進行不安全性行為的男同志的行為是對的
。我不知道是我太敏感還是怎麼樣,每次跟我身邊的同志朋友討論到這種話題,只要我一
說到
"安全性行為才是比較好預防途徑,我們要讓對我們有歧視的人找不到理由來歧視我們。"
我立刻都會被罵說什麼”你說這些話又沒用”、”你現在是在檢討患者嗎?”、”你這種
說法又沒幫助”等等讓我很無力的言論。當然,已經發生的事情就是發生了,做了就是做
了,得了就是得了,罵再多都不能扭轉事實。但,我們難道不需要告訴他們這樣的行為是
不對的嗎?(我指的是主動從事不安全性行為的人,至於是被騙、強暴等等不在此限)
如果話要說的很難聽,今天男同志被汙名,不就那些自己不知檢點的人間接造成的?的確
,歧視男同志的人不對,但男同志會給人這種印象是誰導致的呢?我很希望所有人都是聖
人,不會因為某個族群裡某些人的行為就對整個族群有偏見,但我還是要對那些人說,你
不愛惜自己身體我們管不到,但你的行為不僅在生理上會害到其他人,連帶整個男同社群
的名聲也會被破壞。
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病人當然不是罪人,但我這邊講的污名是指因為那些不檢點的人而我們其他人所受到的污
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※ 編輯: vicarious (49.159.14.246), 09/12/2016 00:34:54
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我指的是那種明明伴侶不固定,做的當下還說“你是我的第一個,那別帶套吧”的那種人
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歧視誰了?
※ 編輯: vicarious (49.159.14.246), 09/13/2016 01:39:45
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