[心情] 沒有出櫃的另一伴
在高中的時候我就已經和家人朋友出櫃了,只能說,我真的是很幸運的那個。
我男友是個還沒出櫃的上班族,即使是很熟的朋友也不知道他的性向,只有一些不熟的圈內朋友知道,這是我第一次交沒出櫃的男友。
我和他是在gay bar因為朋友認識的,過了兩個星期我們在一起了,他很疼我也很照顧我,現在交往快兩個月了,唯一無法調適的是他沒出櫃這件事。
必需捨棄的雖然是一些情侶間小情小愛的無聊事,拍照打個卡,在路上牽手,認識他的朋友圈等等的...
但其實我心裡很難受,因為這讓我很沒安全感,這段感情就只有我們兩個人,有一種有實無名的感覺,況且認識還不是很久,我無法對他有建全的信任,我們為這件事也吵了好多次架,每次吵架都讓我覺得自己很無聊,像在無理取鬧,但我是真的難受,不說出來不行,而他也無奈,因為對與出櫃他有他的難處。
現在我們像往常一樣,但我心裡的不悅還是存在,只是學著習慣這些,試著體諒。
想聽聽板上的人怎麼跟沒出櫃的男友相處?又是怎麼轉換自己的心境?讓自己的心情在一個平衡點上。
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