[問題] 戴不戴套的問題
我跟老公在一起一年多之後 五個月前結婚了
沒房貸 有台車沒車貸 跟公婆住樓上樓下
雙薪住台中 兩個人收入加起來一個月將近九萬
年齡都將近30 這種環境養小孩應該不成問題
但我老公今年暫時還不想生小孩
溝通後說明年再準備開始受孕
我覺得很納悶的是
在這些現實條件前提下 就算不小心真的懷孕了也其實無所謂
我們都結婚了而且有計畫要生孩子
但是他就是很難接受不戴套
交往時期一年多來都使用保險套避孕
完全不曾破戒
而且就算有戴套也絕對會拿出來才射
婚後至今 也只有一次是不戴套
就算不戴套 他也是緊張兮兮根本還沒射就拿出來了
完全杜絕任何可能懷孕的機會
前陣子才協商好那就危險期戴套 安全期就不戴
但我真的不曉得他在戴不戴套這點
是不是有什麼心理障礙 不戴就不敢做??
婚後頻率已經少到一週可能只有一次
甚至可能兩三周才一次(都會趁我不注意打手槍 可能以前單身太久習慣自己解決)
頻率都已經這麼少了
剛剛愛愛前還一直叮嚀說"那這次要戴套喔"
我說"今天真的是安全期沒關係"
一直講到後來我就火了 一點興致都沒了
我實在搞不懂這種事情還要算計成這樣
才能決定到底要怎麼愛愛 是到底想協商些什麼阿
男人不是都很愛不戴套嘛
我也覺得不戴套我比較興奮
但是我老公不知道到底在害怕什麼
只要不戴套好像是件什麼大事一樣
完全沒辦法順著感覺走
一直壓抑著我都快爆發了
剛剛試圖跟他溝通
他就會說"好啦好啦 不戴就不戴這樣總可以了吧"
聽到這句話整個情緒都被澆熄了
原來不戴是要這樣強求他
我實在很想把他整抽屜的套子都拿去丟掉
我們感情很好 他對我很好
只有在戴不戴套跟什麼時候生小孩這點
我們完全無法取得共識
唉
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