[問題/行為]貓貓真是傷透我的心
[文長極多碎碎唸慎入]
去年九月家裡撿來了隻一個月大,被貓媽媽丟在路邊的小貓
家人都非常疼愛她
但有一個很困擾的地方就是 她 真 的 非 常 愛 咬 人
我實在不懂在她成長過程哪裡教養錯誤了
在發現她有愛咬人傾向時 試過 威嚇/大聲斥喝/彈鼻子/噴水/關籠/不理她
但不理她基本上她會咬著不放or 後退->撲擊->再咬->後退->撲擊->再咬= =
在她小時候想說 結紮後也許就好了 結果依舊
想說 成年以後性格穩定也許就好了 仍然如故
我一直思索 讓她咬人的原因是什麼 想找出可能讓她焦慮的因素
吃不飽? 不喜歡小屋子被動? 沒有磨牙? 慢慢調整飼養方式
咬人情況有時會好點 但有時候又會突然故態復萌
以下整理了她會咬人的情境
1. 清理貓砂 (maybe不喜歡自己的地盤被動 但能不清理嗎)
2. 早上5點把我媽咬醒要餵她
(不理她把她趕出房間又會一直跳門把吵得我媽沒辦法睡)
3. 睡覺喜歡睡在我媽兩腿中間的夾縫 如果我媽不舒服 變動姿勢 會生氣地咬我媽
4. 吃醋(?) 護主(?)
家裡主要照顧者是退休在家的爸爸 最常陪她玩
所以貓貓跟我爸爸非常親
有時候跟我爸講話 可能她覺得被忽略吧 就會開始激動地咬我
(或是發生在我跟我媽說話 咬我or 咬我媽)
偶爾媽媽感冒爸爸跑去睡客廳 她也會覺得爸爸被欺負 跑去房間咬我媽= =
5. 想要玩
我知道她想玩 常常守在我房間門外喵喵叫 希望我陪她玩
但由於我平日工時相當長 到家常常已經晚上11點 12點
回家只想趕快洗洗睡放鬆 實在沒什麼餘力能夠陪她
所以她就會在我走路/倒水/拿毛巾時 伏低 撲擊 咬住腳不放(完全就是當獵物看待)
或是門一開冷不防地竄出來咬我QQ
我真的又生氣又心寒
平常工作累個半死回家還要隨時提防角落突然竄出的攻擊
兩隻腳+手臂傷痕累累 舊傷還沒好又添新傷
還都是咬很深見血長長劃痕的那種
前陣子很氣時會用逗貓棒的桿子打 但沒什麼用
決定實行愛的教育 使用凝視逼退大法 狀況有好一點
但每次在我欣慰果然還是要愛的教育的時候又會被咬...
剛剛回家後還特地跟她玩了一會兒 洗完澡一開門還是被咬了好幾條血痕.....
貓貓真是傷透我的心
她的貓砂飼料罐頭餐碗零食睡窩抓板玩具 哪個不是我買的/我做的
這樣對我...
不知道版友有沒有任何建議?QQ
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