[問題/其他] 如何勸退妹妹不要養貓
如題,想勸退我妹不要現在養貓。
一來家裡其實已經有兩隻貓了,
分別是我大三大四開始養的貓,
然後畢業後帶回家一起住,
後來要到外地工作,但家母捨不得兩隻貓於是我最後也選擇將貓咪留在家陪兩個女兒都不在家,老公又常出差的媽照顧。
雖然我媽很愛他們倆個,但偶爾還是會碎唸兩貓把她沙發椅子抓壞,家裡到處都是貓毛等等小問題。
加上兩貓其實有時候會亂大小便,例如有隻要是我媽不讓他進房間會在門口留黃金送他,兩隻貓其實已經夠我媽忙碌了,加上我媽在公司還養了一條狗。
二來,我妹才大一,
連20都還沒滿,她也無法經濟獨立,
她雖然有打工,但我不覺得一個大一生一個月能在飲料店賺多少,
她每個月也拿我媽五千塊生活費,
然後她並不是書唸不好,確一堆被當,還說要考轉學考,爸媽都覺得她是在外面玩瘋了。
我覺得成績其次,但她根本連學業打工都無法兼顧的能力,連穩定的生活及穩定的收入都還沒有憑什麼養貓對一條生命負責啊?
她之前有跟我提過想養貓,
但她當時還住學校宿舍,
我當時覺得她只是說說而已。
但她今天突然Line我問我疫苗跟晶片費用,
我開始極力阻止她養貓,
跟她說萬一貓咪生大病她根本沒那麼多錢,
她根本沒在聽,還說她有存錢,
我真是氣炸,請問在台北生活的愛玩大一生是能存什麼錢?
還表示想養貓的原因,是「想要有一個理由可以好好待在家又不是看電視耍廢的那種感覺,嚮往的生活能變成現實也很棒哇,至於飼料貓砂什麼的我也覺得不是問題。」
我可能也沒資格說她什麼,
但我大三大四沒跟我媽多拿那五千生活費,只花費自己的打工錢(因為是大企業,加上當時課少ㄧ個月至少一萬五收入)養兩貓和自己,但已經足夠支撐他們吃好的飼料半濕食及看醫生的能力。
但我妹連要轉學去哪都還不知道去哪的人,我完全不贊同啊!
她現在說她已經找到貓,最近就會去帶,可是是別人幫忙的所以不能說不養了,還說朋友們會幫忙照顧。
拜託大家幫幫忙,有怎樣更有說服力的話可以勸退她?
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