[問題] 對父母"沒耐心" 的情緒控管書籍推薦
小魯在朋友圈算是著名的好好先生,對親人的脾氣也都算不錯,舉凡爺爺奶奶、
叔叔阿姨,甚至是兄弟姊妹,卻【唯獨】對養育長大的親生父母親非常非常沒有耐心。
由於是家中的老么,再加上多年下來父母的包容、忍耐與體諒,更是造就其壞脾氣與
壞習慣,雖然言語中毫無嘲諷、貶低的意思,但對於父母善意的嘮叨總是放肆厥詞的回應
,事後往往活在懊惱與後悔之中。雖然我非常愛我的爸爸、媽媽,我也很清楚因為有愛,
所以更要好好的說,但是真的好難好難......
實在不知道有什麼相關書籍可以翻閱,最近看了幾本親子間的書籍,像是「面對父母
老去的勇氣」、「背離親緣」、「父母會傷人」、「你的孩子不是你的孩子」等等,
能麻煩版友們【推薦】些經典書籍予以參考嗎~~
謝謝。
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先謝謝樓上兩位~~
每次下定決心後,兩周老毛病又犯了......
如果是與父母的代溝或是想法差異的話,我倒是可以耐心的解說,但我卻只是單純的因為善意的"嘮叨"所致使的不耐煩。
我這邊舉個兩天前發生的事情:
晚餐前剛吃完蛋糕肚子不餓,媽媽第一次叫我吃飯,我說先放冰箱,晚點再自己加熱。
第二次叫我吃飯,我就略顯不耐煩的表示,我現在不想吃。
第三次就暴怒惡言相向,甚至是摔東西......
但是同樣的案例,主角換作是爺爺奶奶的話,即便是十次我也不會有如此脫序行為,或許
是多年來的壞習慣所致使現在的癥結吧!?
另請問鄉民們有經典書籍可以推薦嗎^^~ (對父母孝順/表達/情緒控管 之類的)
※ 編輯: nick5200 (123.193.99.107), 09/02/2016 23:52:09
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