[討論] 台男娶陸妹,女方聘金要20萬RMB,合理嗎?消失
我有個男生好友,老實人,感情專一,(先承認我不是我朋友)
在大陸認識一個女友(好像是陜西人),談了一年感情,
兩人是在公司認識自由戀愛,感情穩定且真誠,
雙方都了解對方的家庭&經濟狀況,男方經濟(家裡收入普通) > 女方經濟
前幾天與他爸一起從台灣出發帶了一個媒人到女方家提親,
女方是他女友的舅舅來談,他原本想說自己預算給的聘金大約四萬RMB就差不多夠了,
結果沒想到…
女方說:
「我們這裡一般行情要100萬RMB啦!但考慮你們家的財力,
所以算20萬RMB就好…家裡只拿一點,反正剩下的都是給你們夫妻倆的…」
這段話把我朋友嚇到冒冷汗,
然後又說:「不然你們小倆口先商量一下,看有沒有什麼問題,是否確定要結婚」
他們倆就到小房間,
我朋友就有點激動且不解的問:「聘金怎麼會要這麼多?]
但更讓我朋友心寒的是,
他女友竟然回:「你爸沒有嗎???」
害他真的很灰心&有點懷疑,
原以為提親會很順利,但變成這樣,雙方談的條件,認知落差很大,
只好先把婚期延後,我也為他感到失望…
他事後跟我說:
「現在仔細想,真不知我女友&她家人的心理是怎麼打算的,
我感覺好像被騙了…當時真的很shock + ”跪覽趴會”,
那時真想”哇咧暗陰陽”就罵出來…」
我也安慰我朋友,我是覺得,
1.有可能他女友家人主導,而他女友也無法說什麼。
2.他女友真的不為他著想,加上可能行情真的是這樣。
我想了解大陸這邊結婚,男方家庭若是普通收入以下(含普通),
給女方的聘金,行情大概是多少?
還是真的只是單純因為男方是台灣人,
都覺得台灣人很有錢,所以才會獅子大開口…
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