[問卦] 好男人現在是負面詞嗎?消失
因為二戰嬰兒潮以前的男人,基本都是傳統的大男人主義
反正就是有拿錢回家就是負責,家裡的事都事男人說的算
女人的想法根本不重要,男人怎樣發脾氣女人都要吞
因為家是男人養的,男人就是天
就因為這個原因,大家覺得這樣的男人很不文明
大約20年前,我小時候就很流行好男人或新好男人這類的詞
好男人不見得要自己養活一個家,甚至也不把事業當作唯一的重心
而是把伴侶或家庭當成另一個重心
那個時代只要男人不抽菸、不酗酒、不檳榔、脾氣好、生活品味普通、幽默感普通、
老實顧家、會分擔家務、凡事跟女生商量,就已經是90分的男人了
可是總覺得現在身邊20~30歲的女生,對這樣的男人好像已經不太滿足了
就算符合上述條件
還是會有女生說,這樣的男生是很好啦,可是就是不會愛上他
可能有人會覺得相處起來不夠有趣
或是覺得這樣的男人格局太小、太軟弱
有安全感的男人要有更大的事業心、更果決甚至有點霸道的性格
反而女生都是推崇的對象都是壞男人,善於交際、果斷決策、高度幽默
對於生活具有高度品味、擅於製造各種生活情趣、敢愛敢恨不糾纏
總覺得現在好男人是不是變成了負面詞,反而壞男人才是變成正面詞?
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