想問大家是怎麼決定要結婚的消失
和男友交往9個月了,我26閃27,都是父親失職或缺席的家庭中長大,他大概三個月的時候
,就開始和我談結婚的念頭,因為他是我的初戀,那時候我很震驚說太快了,現在我們慢慢
在討論結婚的想法,兩個人都沒什麼錢,所以不打算辦婚宴,頂多登記+雙方家長吃個飯,
目前不打算有小孩(但有感覺他有一點點想,我不想),他總是半開玩笑的說,我們明天就
去登記,對我來說,交往到現在這一切都來的好快,和他在一起很幸福踏實,但心中又有不
安(磨合,經濟,工作,家人等),討論時有把這些憂慮分享跟男友說,他覺得我想太多,
他說不辦婚宴不生孩子的話其實不會花什麼錢,未來的事沒遇到也不會知道,他各種分析和
安撫下,目前我們達成共識是,一年後結婚
雖然我們這麼說了,但我仍然對未來感到不安,會想東想西,總覺得結婚不會這麼單純,一
定還有很多東西要溝通討論的(一種預防勝於治療的概念XD),大家在和男友或老公討論結
婚時,要如何發現不安的來源?兩人會考慮溝通什麼呢?婚後有什麼要注意的?(在沒有生
孩子的前提下)
謝謝大家~
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