[閒聊] 追求異性會用很多戰略嗎消失
小弟我前陣子很喜歡一個女生
其實不算正,算蠻可愛的普妹吧
我一開始其實沒有太大的興趣,不過感覺稍微熟識後
對方非常會聊,沒幾天就聊感情觀價值觀又聊到雙方家庭背景
偶爾也會稍微撒嬌之類的舉動
沒幾個禮拜我就暈船了
可能發現我暈船了吧,那女生就開始對我比較冷淡些像普通朋友那樣
除了這件事情外當時也有別的事讓我有不小壓力所以不小心自爆了
後來沒多久後她也跟我聊到她也只是稍微放電沒想到我就暈船了
說其實她跟男人講的每句話都是有心機的,其中參考了很多心理學的技巧
也有在外面收錢教女生
同時跟她交手的男生還有
有包養過她的富二代、醫師、知名外商工程師等等
後來好像跟又高又帥的又有錢跟稍微有名的人在一起了,認識好像也沒幾天而已
相比之下我根本超菜越級打怪
總之後來我根本刷新了我的三觀,開始覺得自己是不是應該也要心機一點多學學
最後她還鼓勵我說其實我條件不差,但是真的該練練,個性該改改
後來也沒連絡了
不過知道這些事情後,其實對她的感覺就還好了
可能真的價值觀思維模式有差吧@@
大家覺得呢?
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我也是很後面才知道@@
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也不算一下就暈船吧 除非每個女生都一樣跟她很會撩
我認識她也很久 暈也是這幾個月的事情
我之前在她面前一直很有自信 是被冷淡之後才整個崩潰
如果被冷淡還不能沒自信 那就是代表我根本不喜歡她吧
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我倒覺得無法信任人的可能是我
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