[問題] 姊姊的小孩不滿三月 紅包金額消失
先說背景,我是男的30歲,平時都在國外工作,上次在台灣過年是五年前,姊姊去年12月
初小孩剛出生(第一胎),單薪,姐夫工作薪水約9w
問題來了
我因為沒包過紅包不知道行情,就問我爸媽要包多少給姊姊的小孩,我那時查了一下大多
是說不用太多$600以下,所以心裡有個數字了,結果兩老就說包個$3600,我就不開心的
說還不到三個月包的錢又是給姊姊拿的這會不會太多?
他們聽了後說(口氣正常,都像在討論)第一次給多一點而且以後你有小孩也是禮尚往來
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我上次他們度蜜月也包了(被父母說要資助她們)破萬。本來準備包給父母一人$6000現
在又聽說(好像是朋友聊天時)基本也要萬,所以只好各包1萬2。
對父母親我沒意見,但是對姊姊的小孩,你們如果是我,會怎麼處理,拜託任和想法和意
見都感謝~新年快樂喔各位!
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謝謝意見
回你後面的,這哪裡有好炫耀
我也沒在找女生喔謝謝
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沒花過之前只有買嬰兒用品送過去
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感謝各位意見
那我調整心態,開開心心送禮就好
※ 編輯: ILoveSheep (118.171.192.159), 02/14/2018 07:57:32
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我們沒啥感情哈哈哈
我個人其實不愛那種為了面子包多一點
也不覺得該薪水多就應該包多一點的想法
父母可以啦,親戚小孩那種就是一個過年好彩頭即可
※ 編輯: ILoveSheep (118.171.192.159), 02/14/2018 08:07:59
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