[問題] 這樣的徵婚條件大家覺得如何?消失
朋友Jason自愛
最近想徵婚 , 以結婚為前提
他開出以下條件,想給大家檢視一下,有失公正否?
1. 薪水至少要4萬,五萬更好
理由:2~3萬多只夠養自己,若要共組家庭至少夫妻兩人都要有4萬以上才算穩當。但常
見夫妻其中一方需負擔較大經濟來源,以現代雙薪家庭來看並不妥當。故要求最低4萬起
跳再來談婚姻。
2. 身高不能太矮(至少158以上),乳房至少C
理由: 以優生學來看,身高太矮會造成後代有大機率矮,造成後代求偶碰壁率大增。
而乳房太小乳腺、產乳量也不佳,無法給嬰兒天然的營養
3. 非嚴重爸寶、非嚴重媽寶(以及過度孝順)
理由: 常見女方聽命母親、父親之命令更甚於男方。若自己沒主見且常過度聽令於長輩
會導致婚姻溝通出現裂痕
而孝順則是要適可而止,達到平衡,畢竟婚姻是兩人工組的新家庭。別人的爸媽也是爸媽
,不可一昧自私只顧己方家人
4. 有金錢觀、不公器私用
理由:沒有理財觀念的人最可悲,婚姻是兩人共組、且為孩子著想。若沒有金錢觀念,再
多錢也不夠用
另外會透挪用公款去私下給己方家人的行為也很糟糕,公私要分明、並且要誠實告知
5.樂觀 活潑開朗 大方
理由: 負面的人還是不要工作家庭害人害己、小氣的也不用想
吝嗇的人怎麼會對小孩大方呢?
6.愛心
理由: 就是要有愛心喇
以上是我朋友多年的觀察經驗而下的結論,針對婚共組家庭提出的看法~ 想看看大家的
意見
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朋友 Jason 自愛
薪水月薪5萬、不煙不酒、個性開朗大方、有愛心
不爸寶 不媽寶 個性獨立自主 有理財觀念
身高174 體重 70
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