Re: [閒聊] 男友說他不想被生出來
※ 引述《starbuck (星巴克)》之銘言:
: 昨天跟男友說不然下輩子換你當女生看看
: 他說:我不想要有下輩子
: 當人很辛苦 我很希望自己沒有被生下 來到這世界上
: 我有點嚇到 他會說出這麼消極的話
: 我說 有我陪著你不好嗎
: 他說 跟你在一起很開心 但我還是不想被生下過人生
: 他家境小康 求學到工作都算順遂 只是收入不多 一個月30k
: 不知道他為何說很辛苦 世界上還有很多低收入戶 或是單身到3.40歲都沒有男女友的人
看到忍不住想回
我前幾天才跟我女友講類似的話
起因是出社會後開始覺得社會很虛(厭)假(世)
即便是我第一分工作領了不錯的薪水
跟家人女友相處也融洽
但還是覺得大部分的人(包含我)活著其實很累
活著有大部分的時間是為了錢
舉目所見從頭到腳都是商業
而人性天生就很醜陋 (負面遠大於正面)
生活過的苦的人永遠比不完
人只有在短暫的快樂才會忘記這些醜陋的事實
等等等
所以我跟他分享我常常有個想法
如果可以做得到 (幻想按下某個按鈕之類的)
我希望沒有我這個人
並不是自殺或是人間蒸發
是從頭到尾"我"不存在
如果可以回到幾十億年前地球不存在更好
地球也不會被人類搞得烏煙瘴氣
但是還沒說完女友就覺得很難過
難道跟他在一起不足以讓我想活下去嗎
我就解釋如果從未誕生在世界上
那麼什麼都是"無"
所有這世上跟我有關的記憶從未出現
我們根本不會相遇
女友又回
那我就會像"你的名字"裡的主角一樣
少了你覺得好像缺少了什麼
我說
"無"的意思不是突然消失
所以你不會意識到這件事
可能沒有我的平行時空
會由別人取代你男朋友的位置
說道這邊
女友就不講話了
到今天還是不理我
我覺得我好像講了不該講的話.....
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確實講出來很自私
但這個問題我好幾年前就開始想了
我希望可以做到完全理性 哲學面的思考
但確實很不適合在女友前蹦出這個歪理哈哈
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我常常問自己
如果是在自己最開心的時候
人生最巔峰的時候
仍然會想讓自己消失嗎
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※ 編輯: royyy (42.72.147.21), 09/23/2017 20:02:37
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