[問題] 精神疾病導致外遇
(代友po文,她無ptt帳號)
我與先生結婚六年多,育有兩個孩子。婚前有協議婚後不管遇到什麼困難都要盡全力一起
解決,除了彼此大忌—外遇。
外遇是我們兩人的底線,也說好如果一方外遇就直接離婚。我們兩人都是十分忠誠的人,
個性也非常契合,因此非常信任彼此絕對不會外遇。
可是救在婚後四年,先生因為生活壓力大而引發了嚴重精神疾病,還被強制送進精神病院
治療。在他罹患精神疾病那數月間,他人格大變,開始捻花惹草,不止與前炮友重新聯絡
上,也與不同女人互傳鹹濕訊息、裸照等。我會知道是因為我有他社群網站帳密。
現在先生病情穩定了,也有吃藥控制,也恢復成為愛家的好丈夫好爸爸,還要我相信他患
病期間身體並無出軌,只有精神外遇。但是,過去他患病期間的外遇行為卻無法從我腦海
中抹去,兩年過去我依舊無法釋懷。我理智上雖然知道他是因病外遇,但是情感上我還是
受傷甚深。甚至,我自己精神狀況也開始出問題了。我有就醫吃藥諮商,但就是走不出來
。
想問,面對外遇的伴侶,應如何原諒?我是否該離婚放過自己?有沒有人有類似際遇?你
是如何解決困境?
想聽聽各位意見
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醫生只能強制住院一週
(有犯罪之虞的情況下可以要求強制住院)
之後情況稍微緩和一點就讓他出院了
但是躁鬱症的發作期 躁期+ 鬱期 很長
友人先生整個歷程為期半年
出軌是在出院後 但病情尚未復原狀況下發生的
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據悉他們夫妻已婚姻諮商一年多
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這個我們也提醒過女方
感覺她先生交往期間跟婚後都是忠誠的,直到發病
但他發病期就亂槍打鳥
試圖聯絡以前的炮友或曖昧對象
※ 編輯: sweetnov (50.137.40.57), 06/15/2017 01:54:38
※ 編輯: sweetnov (50.137.40.57), 06/15/2017 01:55:52
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