[難過] 知道有小朋友被欺負卻什麼都不能做
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最近媽媽下班常跟我說她同事的事情,
她同事因為嫁得不太好的關係,
經濟很拮据,一天兼兩份差賺錢養家,
他兒子才小一,但因為要兼差不能陪小孩,
除了上課,其他時間常常是一個人在家度過或在安親班。
後來同事跟媽媽說,
她兒子之前曾經跟她說過,
他覺得活在這個世界上不快樂,
聽了我媽轉述的一些事情,
覺得這個小孩很有可能是在學校被老師和同學聯合欺負了。
有問過同事不能轉班嗎?同事說不能轉班
轉學也因為學區問題可能沒有這麼容易,
因為沒有人可以借轉戶籍,
她在台灣沒有任何親人。
媽媽說可以投訴媒體,
但同事又怕鬧大後萬一不能讓轉校轉班怎麼辦?
以下這些是我認為這位弟弟在學校被欺負的疑點
一.老師常常用line跟家長告狀
幾乎都是一些雞毛蒜皮的小事,
像是挖鼻孔、咬指甲等等通通要跟家長告狀,
但他才小一,一個成年人在外面鼻子癢可能都會直接抓了,才小一是在要求什麼?
媽媽的同事被老師氣到根本都不想讀她的line
二.差別待遇
老師說只要考一百分的人就能拿到餅乾,
後來弟弟很努力的考上一百分了,所有有考上一百分的同學都有餅乾,只有弟弟沒有,弟
弟氣到把考試一百分的本子撕掉了。(聽到覺得超心酸)
三.運動褲常常破洞
同事說兒子的運動褲常常破洞,
而且看起來不像是磨破的洞,比較像是被破壞的。
四.老師說兒子動手打同學
照他兒子曾說過的活得不快樂的說法,應該屬於比較消極(類似憂鬱)的心態,除非是被欺
負了想反擊,不然應該不可能會動手打同學才對
我問媽媽難道就這樣讓弟弟待在這種環境嗎?
不想辦法解決嗎?是哪間學校哪位老師?
媽媽回就算知道了又能怎麼樣,
代替小孩的媽媽出頭嗎?
人家當事人有自己的選擇還是不要插手太多。
但想到這位弟弟可能被欺負了,
可是聽完什麼都不能做覺得好無力…
因為自己在學校也曾被排擠過所以對這種事情特別容易難過,好希望能幫到他,
只能希望弟弟能努力撐到換班後能交到好朋友…
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已經請媽媽把資訊給同事了,謝謝你
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我覺得這件事最奇怪的就是小孩的媽媽也不願意好好跟老師談和瞭解情況(真的沒空其實
LINE也可以),只是一直想轉學,所以我也覺得蠻無力的QQ
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會請媽媽轉告,謝謝!
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