[心情] 如何成為一個樂觀的人?
看板WomenTalk作者shoot81000 (大聲八萬一)時間7年前 (2017/04/15 00:36)推噓179(188推 9噓 223→)留言420則, 206人參與討論串1/5 (看更多)
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活了二十幾年
總覺得自己一事無成
總覺得自己人生一堆鳥事
總覺得自己不懂幸福的定義
最近碰到了一些工作上的瓶頸
壓力日積月累,今天不小心爆發了
結果同事反嗆說我太愛哭
(我就只哭過這麼一次)
我實在不懂這社會到底... 有多殘酷?
就連我稍微宣洩情緒都要遭到別人的不諒解
下班後看FB
看到一堆溫拿PO自己的人生幸福文
越看越覺得諷刺
越看越覺得自己很可悲...
那種打從心底感謝父母把自己生下來的感恩之情
我從來沒有過,也說不出口
因為從來不認為自己能活著是一件幸福的事情吧
我常常想,我的人生這麼悲慘
我的存在到底在這世界上有什麼意義?
也或許根本沒什麼意義
不過是一個精子和一個卵子偶然的碰撞
造就了現在的我
我天生就是個想法非常悲觀的人
最近幾年有在慢慢想改變自己了
希望能成為一個樂觀一點的人
目前也正在朝這個目標邁進
但果然偶爾還是會有力不從心的時候...
在這裡想認真請教
有沒有版友曾經是很悲觀的人
後來用什麼樣的方式讓自己變得樂觀起來?
還希望能給小的一些建議
在此先謝過大家了!
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感謝以上諸位建議!
真的都是很棒的想法
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這其實也算是一種幸福吧哈哈
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如果人生衰20幾年
能讓我中個樂透,後半生都花不完
我可以 (欸
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期待peggy大心得文(???)
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要這麼問的話一定有啊哈哈
但就覺得痛苦的回憶相對多吧
大概是這種感覺
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好的,感謝建議
※ 編輯: shoot81000 (39.12.141.148), 04/15/2017 01:10:41
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