Re: [討論] 希望變瘦哪裡膚淺了?已回收
再一次解釋我的言論,不是解釋給妳聽的,而是不讓你再私自扭曲
我從未表示「只要是胖,就是自業自得,自私想爽」
單就肥胖者族群,各種肥胖原因,如何看待自身肥胖等等就有許多不同
先解釋兩個評價
自業自得,是指除了非自願原因:如疾病、藥物等等,因個人自由選擇的飲食、生活方式導致肥胖,這是自己的責任,是自己選擇要肥胖的,這個「業」是肥胖這個結果
當然自己要選擇怎樣的體型,怎樣的生活方式,那是個人自由,他自己開心就好,我也說過,志在肥胖,知其生理、社會的負面影響卻樂在其中的人我反而無話可說
自私想爽,是如同上文所提,因自己選擇肥胖,選擇這樣的生活方式導致肥胖,卻要求他人審美得包容,如同引發此篇的系列文中,許多推文表示伴侶不應以對方肥胖身材為分守原因,即便已影響性事
這樣對個人自由寬鬆,卻又想要求他人審美,好迎合自己身型。對於他人對自己身形有微詞時是「個人自由」;他人有對自己肥胖身形有負面想法,倒是給人冠了膚淺?
並且,「個人」認為無視家人/伴侶的健康擔心,與高風險患病後的成本,堅持以「個人自由」維持不利於健康的行為,是十分自私
兩個評價,「自業自得」、「自私想爽」都明確的寫了前提與特定行為族群
妳無視內文,非得用總括式的用外型胖就是自業自得、自私想爽,然後塞給我
我也提過,胖也有非自願原因,我何時表示「外型胖=自私、懶惰等等」?
我所表示的是
「胖的原因若是......=自業自得」
「自業自得的肥胖,若有.......的行為→我認為是自私想爽」
以上解釋完我的推文與個人表達的意思,請不要再把自己想的塞給我!
再者,我對於不特定人在「體型議題」中的「特定行為」表達其意見評論,妳又非得提升到是對於一個人的總體評價???
評論行為=評論行為人整體?
我的個人言論終是我個人的,妳可以不贊同,可以覺得刺眼,妳也可以覺得都是they的錯
但我還是得為了被妳拿去大做文章的推文原意,來做澄清與辯白
妳可以把針對我個人說得多麼膚淺、邪惡,那是妳的自由,但不能把我沒說的話、沒表達的事塞在我嘴裡
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