兩人都住南部,但是不同縣市
我今年過年提早放假跟開工
男友是延後放假延後開工
兩人各放假一個禮拜,所以我們會有兩個禮拜無法見面
於是我約他初四出來約會,因為我初五就要回北部上班了
初一的時候跟男友確認初四要約會的時間地點
他很為難的說:我初二才回到家陪媽媽,初四就出門找妳,我怕她不開心
我不悅:不是約好了?而且你初二初三都陪著媽媽也沒去哪裡,初四一起吃個飯
會怎樣嗎?
男友:可是我才回來陪我媽一個禮拜啊!平時每個月才陪她三天,我初四出門她會
不開心拉!我過年本來就計劃好全部陪我媽
我們就這樣吵得蠻不愉快的,最後我決定取消約會,男友又怕我生氣還是硬要約會
可能是家庭觀念不一樣,我爸就會說我不要每天悶在家裡,過年也要多出去走走
他自己也很會趴趴走找朋友,我一直約我爸去哪去哪他還會覺得我煩
很不幸的初四那天,男友出門前打給我,我在電話那頭就聽到他媽:
你幹嘛去她家拜年,她都沒來我們家,你去幹嘛?
男友初二初三都陪媽媽回外婆家,我初四就要搭高鐵了北上了,高鐵還在我家附近
我根本沒機會去他家拜年...
而且男友來的時候我家人都外出了,他根本也不是來拜年的啊!
我問男友說為何要說是來拜年?不就是約會而已
他覺得說約會媽媽會更不爽,因為他媽覺得我們在臺北很常約會
事實是我們彼此工作都很忙,約會也都是吃吃宵夜就匆忙回家睡覺了
男友從初二放假到初八,除了初四找我一個下午,緊接著幾天每天都跟媽媽在一起
也沒有去找朋友
然後228連假約他出遊,他說不行,他要回家陪媽媽
前年情人節遇到假日,他媽也要他回家,不準在臺北過情人節
我自己覺得有點誇張,他28歲了,非單親,非獨子
臺北到南部都至少要三個小時車程
有必要這麼黏嗎?
我居然在吃他媽媽的醋,我覺得自己心態也很不正常,該怎麼調適哎
還有男友最近要繳一些貸款跟卡費,跟我借錢
我問他為什麼不跟媽媽借
他說因為已經借過一筆了,不好意思再借
後來他問他媽,他媽也要他跟我借
我更加心理不平衡
覺得好像只有壞事想到我,他兒子想對我好卻都不可以
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