不好意思,我是男生,想問問大家意見,本來要po男女版,但女友希望po這裡(有讓女友
看過)
女友有個從大學到現在認識兩三年的男性朋友,工作地點跟他住的地方在同一個縣市,而
且雖然她男性朋友不多,但跟他比較聊得來,所以有時候會單獨出去吃飯或出去玩(男生
在我認識女友前也有約她單獨去台東旅行過,後來颱風取消了)。
最近男性朋友又要來找他吃飯,提出可不可以三個人一起吃飯,也可以參與她的生活,但
女友的意思是我不認識他這樣很怪,也覺得他們共通話題我聽不懂,講到一半要解釋給我
聽,所以希望我不要介意他們單獨吃飯,而且覺得他們認識很久了,要怎樣早就怎樣了
我反問如果我跟女性友人單獨出去吃飯呢?
她:如果是交往前就已經認識很久的當然沒關係,如果不熟的就不行。
我:不熟的朋友久了也會變認識很久的朋友吧。
她:那不一樣
我:那如果我正常認識女性朋友,變熟後可以在你知道下單獨出去吃飯嗎?
她:不行,因為你的狀況是跟交往前有所改變,但我卻因為交往而必須改變原本的跟朋友
的互動
雖然我覺得一樣,不知道怎麼解釋
想問大家,我是否太自私了呢?
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