[問題] 男友過年不來家裡送禮拜年很不禮貌嗎已回收
剛剛被父母罵得莫名其妙
覺得很不平衡
想問問看女孩們的想法
我25男友30
雖然有規劃好未來要結婚也一起出了頭期款買房
但因為才交往一年而已所以我覺得過年還是各過各的
接近要結婚的時候再說
但沒想到父母聽到卻大發雷霆
他們說這樣男生很不禮貌
怎麼可以不來家裡坐坐(還說要拜年送禮)
我當下只回又還沒結婚就被砲白養我了
居然站在男生那邊
還說這樣別想要我們的祝福
後來氣氛很差我媽一直惡狠狠的瞪著我不講話
就不了了之
可是我後來一直在想
我自己也沒有要去男友家拜年送禮
男友爸媽也是很隨性的那種也沒提出這種要求
單方面叫他來不是很怪嗎
而且我也不想叫他來
我從小在許多有婆媳公媳問題的家庭長大
總覺得還是少見為妙
何況現在我們都不住家裡也不同縣市
本來就沒什麼見面的機會
覺得等真正幾年後要結婚再見面就好
不用刻意一直要約
順其自然
但想當然他們是聽不進去的
只是更生氣而已
唉真的越想越頭痛
還沒結婚就這樣以後要怎麼辦
女孩們也都還沒結婚就帶男友回家過年的嗎
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