[討論] 妳們會勸她放棄嗎?已回收
我有一個女生朋友
跟他男友走了快一年
她男友本來就會抽煙 煙癮很重 開車會抽 在室內也會 一直是她介意的
她覺得交往愈趨穩定,和男友愈來愈沒話題聊
那方面兩人也沒有很熱衷
男友也常遲到(遲到20分起跳)
我朋友是個性比較急積極的 他男友很胖 懶散...
她覺得這段感情讓她很不快樂
但她對她男友是有感情的,所以也沒有勇氣提分手
她男友雖自我 對她在意的點只會聽 當耳邊風 不會反駁 但也從來沒改過 但她男友也不
是會主動提分手的
如果繼續再走下去 他們極有可能結婚 男方明說婚後只能跟他父母住,不能搬出去
但我女生朋友的個性又是那種不希望跟公婆住的
我一直覺得那男的沒有很好 水準也沒很好 (ㄧ般人來看可能也覺得我朋友水準好一些)
看我朋友談感情談久了一點都沒火花也不快樂 好像她男友又有很多地方讓她氣到跳腳
我一直規勸她女生青春有限 妳在這段感情既然不快樂 萬一走久了走到結婚 一定要跟公
婆住也是妳無法接受的 而且那男的還很愛抽煙 這男的也不好 我問她為何不要提分手讓
自己有機會愈到更適合的
她說 她對他有感情 而且她不是那麼多機會容易交男友的 所以捨不得放
我聽了很納悶 因為覺得她在這段感情那麼不快樂 單身會不好嗎?
所以想上來問各位姐妹
妳們在一段感情很不快樂而且婚後男方可給妳的環境也不是妳可以接受的 但只是對對方
有感情 真的完全走不了嗎?
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對,她沒其他人追
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※ 編輯: empresscute (101.139.72.67), 10/06/2016 14:26:58
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