[閒聊] 女孩們有看到最近這篇瘋狂轉發的文章嗎?已回收
林心如的媽媽在離婚的時候,
對她說了一句:「一輩子太長了」
這幾天林心如這段話被轉瘋了:
爸媽離婚,就因為爸爸向媽媽養的蘭花盆里彈煙灰…
我媽媽是那種下樓倒垃圾也要穿戴整齊的精緻女人,
在我12歲時,她和爸爸離婚了,
就因為爸爸往她養的蘭花盆里彈煙灰、扔煙頭,
多次勸阻無效……
親友來規勸,
她只有一句話「他人很好,只是過不到一塊去」
外婆氣憤的罵她
「你就是書讀太多,事兒就多了」。
在外婆眼裡,她的女婿高大英俊,
能賺錢,孝順顧家,
反而是女兒任性自私,
不考慮孩子和父母的感受。
她也很難理解媽媽痛訴爸爸的那些如不愛洗澡、
衣服襪子亂扔、吃飯狼吞虎嚥、沒空陪她、
記不住她生日、紀念日……哪能算是毛病,
男人不都是這樣的?
我至今記得媽媽帶我離開曾經的家時,
流著眼淚對我說
「希望你能理解媽媽,一輩子太長了」。
我16歲時,繼父出現了,
他個子不高,相貌平平,
但整個人看起來乾淨清爽,
笑起來很溫和,我竟對他沒有排斥感。
他會為媽媽的花花草草換上漂亮的花盆,
給媽媽新買的淡綠格子桌布配上了新的盤子碗筷,
為她的紅色連衣裙選一雙乳白的方跟的皮鞋,
給我用鐵環勾著的幾把鑰匙換個漂亮的鑰匙扣。
他會拉著她的手一起去江邊散步,
看夕陽和日出,去濕地公園拍攝花鳥,
告訴她每一種植物的名字和故事,
帶回幾根掉落的樹枝,
回家後插在古樸的花瓶里,
擺在我的書桌上。
媽媽熱愛研究菜譜,
每次她隆重的推出新菜時,
繼父會拉我一起漱好口、
衣著整齊的端坐在餐桌前,
模仿美食家一樣在媽媽期待的眼神中
從色香味上開始點評,逗的媽媽咯咯直笑。
繼父還是個過節狂,
他說生活就該有年有節,
有時有令,這樣歲月才有層次感,
不同的節日他有不同的禮物和慶祝方式,
他會帶我和媽媽在季節時令交換時到大自然里走一走,
看看時光的交替…
有一次媽媽生病住院,
我去醫院時看到媽媽的床頭放著一束百合,
水果切成了小塊放在乾淨的淡綠色瓷碗里。
繼父坐在床邊,
為媽媽旁若無人的讀著書。
旁邊病床的阿姨側著頭羨慕的看看這一幕,
我忽然鼻子一酸,
終於理解了媽媽的那一句「一輩子太長了」
確實一輩子太長了,不要將就…
假如一個人和另一個人在一起,
只是為了生活,而生活中沒有節日,
沒有驚喜,沒有感動,
沒有浪漫的話,
不就只是搭伙過日子嗎...
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覺得最後一句話滿寫實的
有女孩們也看過嗎?
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