Re: [閒聊] 送月餅禮盒先拿走一個已回收
要看妳將來是否有想跟男友長久走下去的打算。
將來戀情發展到了一定,兩家接觸來往的細節如果都需要妳這樣、(在疑惑中)打點考慮的
話,妳會覺得辛苦、願意一直如此嗎?
「禮」就是界定人際關係親疏的一種方式,「禮以別異」、「禮尚往來」。今天你送禮給
看重的對象,希望跟對方親近,然後有來有去建立關係。
設身處地想,如果不是很貧窮的狀態,妳會送怎樣的東西給妳看重的對象?未來的可能親
家?
再來就是妳付了錢買禮物幫忙做面子,維護關係。妳的男朋友和男友家人領情嗎?會不會
有點一頭熱?就來如果一直要這樣片面付出妳願意嗎?
自己的家庭不被尊重,妳是否覺得委屈?
從前小妹少不更事時候一心想維護兩家關係,多年來任何事與我先生居中出錢出力,實在
勞累傷財。但是我婆婆就是中秋節「過後」到我家送我「一顆月餅」,還一直強調多好吃
這禮物多讚的角色。
不是要小題大作,而是從往來的起手式就可以看出這家人做事情的方法與態度。其他家內
事可以隨便,可是到了社會上、交際有一定的道理,至少要關心收禮的人心裡舒服。
如果妳衡量之後可以接受,不會為家人感到不被尊重。當然也是很可以的,畢竟是妳的感
情與人際關係。
不才在下我忍氣吞聲多年,有一天看突然醒悟,覺得無法再這樣繼續下去,就決定讓我婆
婆自己承擔因果。她從大陸回來派我送「一包紅棗」,給婚禮包一萬的她友人,我要找空
檔幫忙買禮盒她還一直催,又耳語友人說我陽奉陰違,我只好裸送她的可怕禮物,結果對
方知道內容之後只要我留在管理室……
以上,希望妳好好琢磨,祝福妳。
※ 引述《huinchin81 (君君)》之銘言:
: 男友媽媽送了一個月餅禮盒要給我的媽媽(彼此沒見過面)。然後跟我說裡面已經吃了一
個
: 。
: 這是正常的狀態嗎?我應該如何處理啊!直接拿回家嗎?
: 記者勿抄謝謝
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